Monday, May 15, 2006
背后的画面。。。
这样也好,一次又一次的劝告你自己去放开,放手,不要再为你自己而再痛苦,带着悲伤与伤痕上路。
有些东西,不是你的,就不是你的。三番四次, 反复的想,还是再想,答案永远也是如此,也不会有结果的。
如果是你的,就算世界已着火,就算世界沉没,都是无法改变结果。
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变成了一个影
隐藏了自己
爱情困难呼吸
我是沉默玩具
执着对你无限情
模糊我自己
不愿深深把爱情
输了你的游戏
你要逃
对决拥抱
我看到
为什么爱上你的人是我
为什么一厢情愿的人会难过
为什么对你舍不的人是我
爱上你需要那真情意
说在而情意
寂寞点点不休息
而让甜蜜却也忘记
幸福不再美丽
可是我会在意
这种对你的深情
我不会怪自己
不愿意深深的情意
输了你的游戏
你要逃
对决了拥抱
我看到
为什么爱上你的人是我
为什么一厢情愿的人会难过
为什么对你舍不的人是我
爱上你需要那真情意
说在而情意
喔~~爱~~
为什么对你舍不的人是我
还是你需要那真情意
喔~~爱~~
这么爱你的人会难过
为什么对你舍不的人是我
还是你需要那真情意
说在而情意
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Sunday, April 23, 2006
理想的伴侶真的就那麼一個嗎?還是有很多個呢?
你相信「Mr. Right」存在,還是「Mr.Rights」存在?
理想的伴侶真的就那麼一個嗎?還是有很多個呢?
往往許多人在抉擇伴侶時,容易東想西想,不知所措,
就是因為害怕一時做錯決定,
看錯人,造成終生的遺憾。
諾貝爾文學獎得主蕭伯納說:
「此 時此刻在地球上,約有兩萬個人適合當你的人生伴侶, 就看你先遇到哪一個,如果在第二個理想伴侶出現之前,你已經跟前一個人發展出相知相惜、互相信賴的深層關係, 後者就會變成你的好朋友,但是若你跟前一個人沒有培養 出深層關係,感情就容易動搖、變心,直到你與這些理想伴侶候選人的其中一位擁有穩固的深情,才是幸福的開始,漂泊的結束」。
愛上一個人靠際遇.持續愛一個人靠努力
愛上一個人不需要靠努力,只需要靠「際遇」,是上天的安排。
但是「持續地愛一個人」就要靠「努力」。
在愛情的經營中,順暢運轉的要素就是溝通、體諒、包容與自制(面臨誘惑有所自制)。
有許多人總是為「際遇」所迷惑與苦惱,意念不停、慾念不斷、爭逐不散, 而忘了培養經營感情的能力才是幸福的關鍵。
所以不要去追問到底誰才是我的Mr.Right,而是要問說在眼前的伴侶關係中,我能努力到什麼程度、成長到什麼程度 。
如果沒有培養出經營幸福的能力, 就算真的Mr.Right出現在你身邊,幸福依然會錯過的,
而活在猶疑與遺憾當中,這不就是許多「愛情虛無症」的遭遇與心態嗎?
若你此刻已有一位長久相伴的伴侶,不要再隨便三心二意地猶疑了。
我們往往不易察覺感情中的一個陷阱,就是「近親生慢侮」,
也就是經濟學中的鐵律「邊際效益遞減法則」: 跟你在一起越久的人,就越容易麻木與忽視,而新鮮的「際遇」總是那麼動人可愛。
在感情對待中,難免有摩擦與無心的傷害, 而且得罪自己的次數累加起來最多的人,往往是跟我們在一起最久、最親近的人;
而新歡呢?又還沒開始有得罪你的機會, 再加上他的刻意討好,所以新歡怎麼看怎麼可愛,舊愛怎麼看怎麼討厭。
請別忘記:
新歡身上總是有不確定的未知數,舊愛身上就是有難得的熟悉感、確定感、信賴感。
千萬不要隨便在偶然的「際遇」中迷失了自己,錯放了幸福溫暖的手。
應該把精神用在學會經營幸福的能力上, 同時也提醒我們「溺水三千 只取一瓢飲」--若有幸遇到了難得的伴侶,就不要再三心二意了。
我們永遠不知道一生何時會遇到兩萬個其中的幾個 ,知福惜福 、活在當下,Mr. Right 才會是Mr. Rights。
Wednesday, April 05, 2006
Feeling
Sometimes I ask myself, how i can be so mature that I can control over my feeling. I mean living without feeling is unlikely to happened but if it did happened it is likely you became emotionless. Do you agree?
Today I just being struck by a case which the core is about feeling. Feeling so despair, rejected, heart-broken, feeling tat keep u in struggle to cope and recover back to normal condition, it is like no way out!
Well, question come to me. Am I so good in control of my feeling? Today, I learned that is impossible to control your feeling when it comes to real test and experience but thankfully I learned that I have a God that can uphold me during the time of difficulties, loneliless, and such negative feeling.
I believe continue to allow God to work in your life, the biggest things that you gonna to face, is when God using you wholely.
Sigh~~ I also dunno what i am talking about.
Anyway, the above passage I wrote it without thinking much of it.
Wednesday, March 22, 2006
Kim Fooi's QUIZ
Take a quick visit on above link, it will show how well you know about me...
ENJOY~~!!
Monday, March 20, 2006
End of mid term holiday
Anyway, Just share or glance some of the events that I had been gone through for the past week.
Monday, forgotten. hehe~~
Tuesday, went to The Mines to shopped with a fren.
Wednesday, went to watch 2 become 1 in Mid Valley with a bunch of fren.
Thursday, went to watch Final Destination 3 IOI Mall with a fren.
Friday, Pot Bless, Celebration for SPM-ians, and fellowship together with frens.
Saturday, Rushing to be done for the assignment.
Sunday, 1)Church-morning service. 2)lunch with parent
Friday, Pot Bless, Celebration for SPM-ians, and fellowship together with frens.
The food is good,
the non-alcoholic juice is nice,
the movie is fascinating, the title of the movie is "Left behind". I'm not so sure the whole story is about. But for the end part, the msg that it wanted to bring across is about the salvation. Which mean in life, salvation is important then virtorious.
Well, basically today I can keep myself to be abit relax because the assignment has been finished and has been hands out to the lecturer. I should indulge myself with some ice-cream.. hmm... rite?? Okay.
Stop Here! May God Bless You! LOVE YOU ALL!
Thursday, March 16, 2006
2 Become 1
Main actor & Actress: Richie Ren & Miriam YeungThis movie looks like a remotically type of movie but actually it is a comedy.
Richie Ren is doctor.
Miriam Yeung is a designer.
Bascially, the show is about this 2 people who doesn't know each other and became fren. Miriam has breast cancer and Richie has a weaknesses in his private part and requesting... from her. From there they start to get close to each other and in the end her she has a daughter after breast operation.
Not bad, outside looks like love story but I think is comedy.. kekee
Friday, March 10, 2006
Level 16
No doubt. No strange to those gamers who like RPG. Nowadays, there are not only freeware, but also has free-online game.
That is right u r there. I was talking about some soft of game. Now can u link to level 16..? Is not the floor 16.
Okay. Let me take u straight to the point, I was talking about maple-story. I was playing now, now is about 4.26am (10/3/2006). All portion for heal has been finished now I need to wait itself to heal with the charater stand still in the game. So that I can get 25HP per 10 seconds.
Is already full HP. I got to go now.. See you later.. ciouzz..
Wednesday, March 08, 2006
5 minutes after 12(Part2)

She came all the way from Cheras. She is Joo Joo. Look she is so cute...

BTW, She is Fay Lin. She came all the way from Kepong.

Ong Lim came all the way from Bukit Jalil to wished me Happy B'day.Love you!
They all came all the way to Puchong. Thank You the one behind the scence is Wai Hong. B'coz he fetched them all the way to here, Puchong
20th b'day pictures...

Lai Meng and I who were not wearning eye glasses... So de "handsome".

Bunch of wolves~~~
Girls beware of them except the b'day boy sitting left hand side in black colour shirt.
Know why they all called to be wolves. See all of them wearing eye-glasses.. kekekekek~~
Even though I'm wearing but I'm exceptional.

Siew Wan and I. She is a good girl and a nice girl. She is still single whoever wans to take her MUST ask me b4 u go after her... kekekeke
"Happy Birthday2
Turtle Fooi"
Happy Birthday to KIM FOOI>!!!!
(more pictures on http://photos.yahoo.com/kfchoo86.)
-Funny Faces of wai kit.
-CAUGHT! wai kit on fire.
-JC over-react.
-AGAIN. Fung wei did cute-ness and fun-ness.
Joy and Happiness
Last for 20 b'day celebration
Continued...Look at my 3rd b'day cake. Rich of fruits........
I'm sure the gals would be very jeolous...
Kekkeekek~~~
I was very happy to see my third cake. B'coz I know I would never be alone coz of them.
Thank You guys and girls for lighten my life even i was in the darkness in Steven Corner. I was abit of embrrassing b'coz the people around there but when I think of u guys my heart just like burning myself away, I was talking about how warm in my heart!!!!! not the fire.
U were all my good frens that carried me around and about on 4th of March and eventually brought me through 19 to 20.
Thank You FRENS!!!!! LOVE YOU ALL!!!
Second B'day Cake


This is the Second cake after PCCG. At the late afternoon. I was been called by my fren who r in yellow colour shirt.
Conversation:
She: Come to IOI Mall... just come.
Me: Okay. 15 minutes.
So, I went to shower and straight taken off to IOI Mall. I took the parking ticket, enter IOI parking teritory and parked. I went off from the car and walk straight to the King's Cake Shop.
I saw them was outside. I was quiet suprise to see a cake and a a girl(leng lui) that i'd never knew. Okay. It was quiet nervous when I walking toward them, I'm so afraid of dunno what should I talk to them.
I reached them and setttle down. After introduction, I told her this...
" Hey, so sorry ooo. The 1st time u met me have to celebrate my birthday, u dun mind one ooo."
kkekeek~~ nothing happened she just keep laughing. It was hot outside of IOI so we decided to move to other place to celebrate my b'day. So we went "Old Town Kopitiam". They sang happy b'day song to me in a softly and gentle way cause it was full house in the rest.. Can't believe.
After that, it was a whole day out until night. Where another fren almost all school-mates goin to celebrate with me.
To be Continue...
Sunday, March 05, 2006
5 minutes after 12
The reason why I needed to be there b'coz I AM B'DAY boy mahh!!! I turned 20 on the 4th of March 2006. They gave me a card and a present. For many years, I had never received b'day card along with present. But for this year, is special and means alot to me. They mean alot to me. Thanks 2 my 2 girl-friends and 1 guy fren. They were those who gave me card along with present. Thanks GUYS for it. This is really an unforgettable moment for my age of 20.
Thank YOu!!!!!!!! I LOVE YOU ALL.
-Momo
-Joo
-Hong
3 of March 2006
This is a tiring day even i went to bed early. After classes came back to house. Broadband connection isn't working, called up to them and made a report and complain. Then only 2 technicals guys came and change a new D-Link Modem and finally plug the wire to on9 so that it can be used.
After they went off, sit infront for like 3 hours. Then only i went to have a good nap. During my sleeping, few calls and messages has waken me. IT IS BAD that i couldn't have peaceful sleep. :(
I woke up, resting... suddenly a my hphone ringing. It was a her. She doesn't sound good when I first hear her voice. Anyway, I did what she had told.
It rains heavy the traffic is bad. I hardly see the car infront of me neither the back. Thank God we all safely reached the distination and the rains stopped when we reached. :)
Hmm.. nothing much happened in the house, we were the 1st car to arrived and we did watch the movie and did a little prayer. :)
Was suprise when Josh came in with the cake. Unfortunelately, he can't see me even though i was infront of him.. kekeke~~ b'coz they wan to celebrate my b'day mahhh!! :)
After the teaching, sharing and discussion, then they all celebrate with me. Deep down inside my heart, it was warm, touch, and emotional because I'm really so glad that they celebrated my b'day! I'm really so so de thankful to them. :0
PCCG means alot to me.... I LOVE PCCG and I LOVE ALL OF U GUYS!!!!
Monday, February 27, 2006
TPDOF0305-TPDOF0508
The Combination.Tomas in black colour. Who is standing behind is the grandfather, The GAY! kekekeke~~
This photo was taken in Kanshila hostel where she has invited us all to her b'day party.
Although we came from different intake and only study certain subjects together but friendship and relationship among us has never been left behind!
So Glad To Know All Of Them!!!!
Ooo .. ya! I dun think they will come here and read my blog. Let me tell u something, the guy with baby blue shirt stading behind/besides Tomas like the birthday girl!!! Shhhhhtttttttt.... Dun tell.. okay!!!!!
Happy Family
Interesting Topic????This is our family.
Grandfather(not in pic),Tomas, also known as The GAY!
Papa(daddy) with White T-shirt, The Mickey
Mama(mom) with black shirt, The Evening Star
Daughter with white colour shirt, The HOM
Son In Law(daughter's husband), ME LA!, The Tigger
Bro of The Mickey in yellow T-shirt, The Pooh!
That made us a HAPPY EVER FAMILY!
Birthday
Friday, February 24, 2006
PORNOGRAPHY
1.) Hard Porn
2.) Soft Porn
Pornography is the visual or non-visual representation of sexual behavior that is designed to demean or degrade the role of the human body as a mere sex object.
Hard Porn - everything has been taken off.
Soft Porn - enable you to be stimulate you.
haha~~ Starting to love MORAL!!! :)




